Guys I have liked

After posting and re-reading Why Do I Attract Guys That I DON'T LIKE, I realized that many things happened/changed with the situations I mentioned in there and I also want to update with those soon (*laughs away*). I also realized that I really should mention who I did used to like because that post made me seem like an extremely picky person who will just never find someone remotely good enough for me.

I promised myself sometime ago that I would post about guys that I HAVE actually LIKED before too. So here's proof!

Couple pic for your eyes

One of the guys (D1) that I liked went to my church a lot, but we've never talked to each other because we just had very different group of friends. And he was also a fob, so there was a bit of language barrier there. 

The very first time I talked to him was during a winter church retreat. There was like a mini game room where people just chilled and played ping pong. I saw D1 playing and I got a really bad impression of him at first because this girl told me that he get's too competitive with games and that he was secretly a jerk. But I didn't care at all.

The next day of the retreat, I ended up playing pool with a bunch of friends and D1 joined eventually. When I saw him I was like, "oh it's the tall jerkface" and just did  my thing. But then after playing and watching a couple rounds, I started to get a different impression of him. He helped the younger guys play pool better and played the guitar as he was waiting for his turn and stuff. I joked around and said that he sucked at pool, and then all of a sudden he got up in my face and jokingly said something like "yo you don't know how I play" and because I got a real close up look, I realized that he was a lot cuter than I thought. He had small eyes (I find that very cute!), he was really tall and skinny (I used to like skinny, not anymore lol) and he was really funny.

About two weeks after the retreat, I can confidently say that he was interested in me, at least in being good friends :p

One day, we were both waiting at my church to go to a Super Bowl party after service (it was a party with our entire youth group, not a beer fest type of thing). Since most people went home already or to the party, D1 and I started to talk. Even though my sister and a friend was with us, we did most of the talking. And when I look back at this, I have to admit, we were flirting here and there, I won't get into that (hahahaaaaaa). When I had to leave he was like, "I'll see you at the party". 

And we see each other at the party and instead of watching the Patriots play, we went off and talked some more and played card games with others. But when we were playing card games, he wanted me on his team all the time and taught me how to play, even though I already told him that I knew how to play.... teehee I could see where he was going with that.

Anyway, after that, we continued to talk, but after TWO Sundays, all of a sudden he tells me that he's moving back to Korea the NEXT DAY! There was a family situation and because he's a home-stay kid he had to go back. And GUESS WHAT?!?! I COULDN'T EVEN SAY BYE TO HIM (important situation came up...). 

THE END. THAT'S IT. NO CONTACT. Sad story really.... And this all happened during my sophmore year in high school. 

After stalking for a bit. D1 is now in California. And he looks very different. Better looking because he gots the muscle now hehehe. oh well I've moved on!

Ulzzang couple. I could be like this picture RIGHT NOW... if I had a man lol

And now let's move on to the other guy that I liked, which I shall call D2. D2 also went to my church, but the first day he came in, my eyes just WOULDN'T CLOSE. He was a lot taller than D1, a lot more stylish, and a hell of a lot better looking. And every Sunday, I would see him walk by and I'd just stare.

He didn't go into the youth service, but to the adult service, and that's how I knew that he was a fob. And one Sunday, I saw him walk past by me and my mom and then all of a sudden, MY MOM TALKED TO HIM. NO. not just talk to him, but touch his face and treat him like a kid, as she does with most guys that she knows, and D2 would say hi politely and chat for a bit and then leave. WTF MY MOM KNOWS HIM?!?!

By the way, he kinda has a Jung Yong Hwa or SE7EN look/style to him. 

SE7EN is so fine. And funny thing, D2 has this hairstyle at the moment LOL

ANYWAY, I asked my mom immediately how she knew who he was and she was like, OH he's my friend's son. His name is _____. And apparently, D2 was the younger brother of this girl that I was becoming friends with AND he lived RIGHT IN FRONT of our family friend's house that we went over often! Those have stories behind that, and I'll explain quickly. So there was this new girl named F and damn she had curves lol. She dressed really well and she was really pretty. We were getting friendlier as she went to the youth group services, unlike her brother. But one day we went to our friend's house for a housewarming party and I thought I saw her there, but I didn't bother because I was doing my own thing. But the Sunday after that night,  F came up to me and was like, "Oh Steph, were you at that party?" And I was. "OH! I wasn't sure which is why I didn't come up to you because I didn't want to seem awkward. If I knew it was you I'd bring you over to my house, which is right across the street!" And we were about to get each other's numbers so that we could chill in the future, but this asshole interrupted and BOOM never really talked to her again.

So yeah after that I learned that D2 was F's brother and I could've been good friends with her and then somehow get to know her brother more. Plus I found out that they were SUPER RICH, not that money matters, but I mean.... Their house is over $2 million in a really nice town in MA. Plus, he's apparently really smart and his dad is some big businessman in Korea. And his mom is really pretty and super nice for a ahjumma. sighhh, and my mom was friends with her.

D2 also brought his friends over to church once. He goes to a boarding school and because he's really nice, he brings his friends over once in a while to his house (because they got the extra space lol) and gives them like Korean food and stuff since his friend's family all live in Korea. What a kind guy huh? Anyway, when he and his friends came to my church, it was like having a boy band come in. They were all REALLY GOOD LOOKING AND STYLISH. Seriously... It's like having Big Bang, DBSK, CNBLUE, Beast, 2PM, B1A4 etc. etc. just walk into some small dingy church... I was amazed.

How would you feel if you saw a group of guys that resembled CN Blue just walk in right in front of you?
HUH?!?! Again, let me emphasize this, D2 really resembles Jung Yong Hwa!

We also went to a retreat together and luckily D2 and I were in the same small group, so we were able to chill for a bit there and get to know each other a little more. But he really preferred to speak Korean, but we were still chill. We also played games together and told funny stories, hehehe.. I remember.

And the Sunday's after that, D2 started to go to the youth services, and DAMN he changed his hairstyle and put more effort in how he dressed since you're a bit limited to how you dress in church retreats. My mind just blew.

But eventually, the entire family just stopped coming... They went back to their own church. My interest in him died obviously because the language barrier was kinda intense and we just never hung out (It KILLS me to know that I COULD HAVE through F but that thing was ruined...).

Now, he has a girlfriend that's OLDER than him and she goes to MIT?!?!?! Damn I was no match anyway lol

Besides I was fatter then lolololol I'm muuuch better now, therefore, I can find better guys right?

But isn't it nice to know that there are guys that look like ^THAT^ and aren't celebrities, but living pretty close to you? Damn, my first love better be worth it!! lololol I CAN DREAM RIGHT?!?!

So there you go, two guys that I have perviously liked, and they both ended pretty badly. Good things come out of the bad right? And third time's the charm right? hehe We shall seee~~~

Why do I attract guys that I DON'T like?!?!?

Okay. I've been thinking about dating a lot because of some situations that are happening in my life at the moment... I say it now. I want a boyfriend. Ewww that sounds so desperate, but read on to see why I feel this way...

So I'm single. I'm in college. I'VE NEVER DATED BEFORE. And I'm just getting BORED.

Look how happy this guhl looks...

Yeah, I know most people tell me that the single life is the best and being in a relationship is all too stressful and hurtful and just not worth my time at the moment (because I should focus on school more blah blah blah)... But the people who tell me that HAVE DATED BEFORE.

Since I NEVER HAVE, I'm so inexperienced and I feel like a clueless kid. And I'll admit it, I'm bored and curious!!! I want to know what it's like. Having a sexy guy around you all the time and have people in the streets stare at you going like, "HOLY SHIT! What a sexy couple!" LOL. But seriously. I do want that to happen. And when I watch dramas and see all that cute shiet, I get jealous... I think in my head, wow... girls who have boyfriends must have done at least one of those overdramatic things... and they must have felt so happy!! I don't care about the pain you get after breaking up and stuff at the moment. I know that may seem a bit ignorant, but just try to understand someone like me...

I'm not really into the whole couple t's thing, but if they're done really well or subtle, DAMN

Subtle couple outfit that I approve of :)

Seriously, I'm 18, going to be 19 in July. I'm in college. I'm a nice person who likes to live life and laugh. I have nice style (I like guys with nice style. style attracts style!), and I'm not UGLY or repulsive to look at... SO WHY HAVE I BEEN SINGLE ALL THIS TIME?!?!

I mean, I guess you can say that I'm "innocent" since I've never dated before (some guys like that you know??) BUT I DON'T LOOK LIKE IT APPARENTLY. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? Almost EVERYONE who gets to know me gets SO SHOCKED when they learn that I've never been in a relationship before. Not even one of those 1 day or 1 week ones... Yes. I have never dated before. I'm a complete noob to guys and actual dating and relationships and all that fuzzy warm stuff.

I'm beginning to look desperate by putting these pictures up haha

I thought this girl was Park Bom with the corn!! But it's not, just another ulzzang couple.

They all ask me either one of these things:
1. "You're so chill and pretty and you've never dated? Is it because you haven't found someone you like yet?"
And I explain to them, I have liked a few guys in the past. And they were either just crushes that eventually faded away since I was too shy to do anything about it/ got over it, OR something just happened that made me realize that I can't like the guy. I have very specific 2 examples about this but I'll talk about my past with guys in another post. *sigh memoriesss*

2. "You're so chill and pretty! How do guys not like you?!?!?"
Oh boii, I have an answer to that too... Guys have liked me in the past. But they're all guys that I DON'T LIKE. These people say that I might be too shallow, but I disagree. Like this current situation, I have to admit that the guy that likes me is actually good looking. Cute it more like it. But I don't like him, so it's not because I'm shallow. They also say that my standards my be too high. Okay I might give in to that because I need a lot of things in a guy. Looks are important to me, but I can let it go if you're really smart. But if you're dumb with no promising future, why would I want to be with you? And I'm huge about being Korean or not. I actually do prefer Koreans, but as long as you're Asian, it's all good. BUT I have liked guys before for who they were! Like one of the guys that I'll talk about in the future....

Actual Korean married couple. Look so happy

And that brings me to talk about the most recent things that have happened.
I'll talk about T because I think this... thing has died now. So I met him through friends in the beginning of this school year. And some stuff happened in between.......

Very "hinting" texts and chats went by and during winter break I saw him a few times too. He even came to my house for god's sake. I just knew that he liked me, but I couldn't find myself to like him back! He had everything an Asian girl would want.
-He's above average, much more cute than sexy,
-Tallish
-Really smart kid : I swear he's gonna make a ton of money in the future
-Funny
-Cute personality : He knows how to make people happy by doing something weird haha
-He will NEVER get mad or yell back if you do something to him : Call him an asshole just for fun, he won't make a comeback. Call him an asshole when you're mad at him, he won't yell back and instead try to understand the situation (well this aspect is a bit of a turn-off for me because it shows passiveness and how he can't think of things to do and I like more active guys who can do things for themselves and always find something to do, but most girls LOVE that. You ask him for shopping money when you're married, he give to you, no question lol)
-Works in the same company as my dad... (I've decided I'll talk about T in a future post lol, our texts just have to be judged by an outside source haha)

T even came over to chill in my house. He even gave me a ride home from Boston and drove all the way back to where he lives without question (I have a thing with rides). But I just didn't like him!! My sister, Sarah, saw him and was even like, why don't you pursue him? Nope I just can't!! Besides, time has gone by so I believe his interest in me has died. SO GOOD FOR ME!!!

It's the Park Bom lookalike again. Not digging the cigarette thing, but I LOVE this pose

And the most recent situation.....

There's H. He lives on my floor.
-I thought he was Korean when I first met him, but he's actually Vietnamese. So there you go, he's good looking since he looked like a "typical" Korean. But he's actually 7/8 Viet and 1/8 French. He French side shows in his nose as, I have to admit, it's very good looking. (LOL COMPLIMENTING A NOSE?!?!).
-Tallish : but taller than T
-Funny
-Very thick Vietnamese accent :  Yes, he's a fob, but it's cute.. (I tend to like fobs, I just love when people switch languages just like that)
-We take the same class, so we do homework together and stuff and text each other when we're going to class.
-Going into Pre-Dental : There's a future manggg
-Nice personality

Anyway, I DEFINITELY KNOW he likes me. He's so suggestive, is that the word?, and I always try to change the subject. He always helps me carry my stuff when I'm about to go on a trip or home. He met my dad because he wanted to. Always tries to come in my room when I tell him not to. And when we was drunk, he acted soo stupid around me....

Besides the drunk part, he's a VERY nice kid too! He's very nice to girls (isn't that a bad thing? haha) and always tries to help. I don't know what I did that made him like me. I mean, it must have been just my natural personality that attracted him or something. BUT I DON'T LIKE HIM EITHER! Like, even my dad was like, oh what was that good looking guy's name again? He has the looks and the personality that I like, but I can't find to like him back.

Like, Asian girls like him a lot - I can tell that there are a couple of girls that are interested in him, but there's one reason why they back off. He has a girlfriend. WTF?!?! Then why does he try to go after me all the time then? He personally told me that there has been rough things going on between him and his girlfriend, but it's still just weird...

The fact that the likes me while he's still with a girl isn't the reason why I don't like him, in fact, I found out about that way after I learned that he liked me. I JUST DON'T. Maybe it's because he's not Korean. Maybe he just doesn't fit my standards that well.

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I'm just tired of this. If ONE MORE GUY comes to like me and I don't like him, I might just go desperate and just go for it ( LOL.... well.. most likely I won't).

I'm not in middle school where dating isn't really serious, nor should it be taken seriously (except for those few exceptions hehe). I'm in college now. I'm going to be 20 in LESS then 2 years!! How crazy is that?!?! This is the time to get into serious relationships I believe because, I DO want to get married in the early-mid 20's ( YES IT'S TRUE). That means I need to find a sexy man soon lol. Besides, you should be trying out serious relationships at my age because people find the right guy around their mid 20's and then get married around the 30's. I want to try out that silly couple ring thing... I want to flirt and tease openly without having to have second thoughts. *sigh*

The famous key lock thing they have in Korea's Tower. *dreams away*

But if this just keeps up, how I attract guys I DON'T like, I'm going to be single for the rest of my life and live alone and become not a cat lady, but a bird lady.... *siiigggghhhh*

I KNOW! It's a cartoony thing, but STILL CUTE. I want to do that lol

If you want to introduce me to anyone, just tell me!!! I'm at a point where I will accept blind dates! lol